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JarOfGiggles
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I have just a few things I need to say to you. You said to talk to you out in the open so here I am. You talk about me being a fair weather friend. Well, in case you didn't know why I haven't been online towards end of last year. My sister was battling Ovarian Cancer and I was needed here to take care of her and drive her to the doctors since about August. But things got worse and then Dec. 6th she had to have a hysterectomy. So I am not sorry I was not here to fight your little war with the slackers. I had more important real world issues that I needed to tend to. I have learned that my real world is more important to me then being on here.

I almost lost my sister and you wanted me to be here to help you when I didn't even know all that was even going on with you and them all. And I didn't know if my sister was going to live or die. Only a few people knew what was going on with me here. I didn't advertise it to a whole lot of people. I am only saying this now because I am sure the people on here think I am some horrible person here now when you all have not a clue as to why I wasn't around.

I know you will probably delete this but at least I said my peace with you and explained my side of it. I have nothing more to say to you. I am done with this crap with you. I can never trust you again for posting my PM's on here. Have a nice life.

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MrsDouglass
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Re: Jinzy


I'm terribly sorry to hear about your sister.

I don't mean to stick my nose where it doesn't belong, but I'm going to anyway.

I believe what Jinzy meant about being a fair weather friend was that you didn't stand up for her when she was being called a liar and people were saying she didn't give them notice before cancelling their moderator status here.

You were there that night, so it had nothing to do with your sister. It was a thread I started on ABC advertizing that there was a contest to change the name here.
Several regulars got their panties in a twist and started implying that Jinzy was a liar. You pm'd her that night while it was going on giving her your support, but you didn't post your support publicly in the thread. I think she feels that you were more worried that the regulars might think badly of you than you were about standing up for a friend.

Perhaps there's more to it--I don't know.

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JarOfGiggles
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Thanks about my sister. She is doing a whole lot better.

I think I remember that thread. I might have at that time not thought it to be anything or I might have left or I might not have read the whole thread. I can't remember that far back. I also when it comes to fights between people that I know I won't get involved and at that point I might have decided to back off and stay out of it. I do not like to take sides when it is people that I know. If is was someone that I know and a troll I will back the person that I know 100%. My not taking part in this is not being a fair weather friend just not taking sides between friends. I don't care what people think of me but I just don't care to pick one friend over another. I shouldn't have to do that. And I really don't know all the facts of what went on with the whole thing besides the point. I'm not going to get involved with something that I don't have all the facts too either. I do know she made threads about removing Mods at the time. I do remember that. As far as backing up someone saying they sent PMs to people I have no way of knowing if that was true or not. I wasn't there to actually see that happen so I can't say it was done. But, I did see the threads she posted.

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