amiable
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As young lady, I always wished of becoming a military officer's wife. Why? Because I wanted to be sure that the man I'm gonna marry is indeed a man, someone who can fight for our family's welfares and someone who is strongwilled.I want the head of my own family to be strong physically and mentally no matter what odds will exist.So here I am married to an army officer' a pmaer,a member of class 2000.One of my dreams was fulfilled when I tied the knot with him.But how come this is happening?After 4 years of marriage that I thought would last, he wants to end it. His reason? He fell out of love because of my dispute with his parents.He cant take it according to him. So what does this mean, he prefers his parents more than his own family? I cant believe this!
You see, his parents were against our relationship eversince. My husband is an army colonel's son while I am only a master sergeant's daughter, they wanted someone who belongs to the elite. So they didn't support our marriage. In spite of that, we tried trreating each other in a civil way, but it didn't last, their disagreement to our being together still surfaced.
I dont know but I think whats important is I know there's nothing wrong with my character, I have no skeletons in my closet. But it's unfair for me and my daughter. I dedicated my life to my husband, forgot my professional ambitions and he does this to me.
Why should some parents interfere in their children's marital affairs? They're happy to see their children end up in broken marriage. And why should some children listen to them when theyre wrong. Yes they are parents but isn't it that once you get married your main priority now goes to your own family?
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11/3/2004, 3:05 am
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