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JesusRocksHard
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What some good ideas to help my friend?
First of all, let me point out that she won't listen to anything I say about God, and she thinks shes "emo" because she dyed her hair black. She is also busy so I cant bring her to church, she works at the zoo.
Her parents are divorced.
She gets made fun of because of how she looks and her love for cats.
Her mom smokes, but is trying to stop.
And shes a die-hard anime fan.
I have no idea what to do, shes going to a different school, and she talks about my other friend when she comes over.
Anyway, Help! I dont know what to do, I've prayed so much.
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Re: What some good ideas to help my friend?
i don't really know...i think the best thing to do would just to keep praying for her right now and just be nice to her and stuff and try not to like act like your trying to force her to become a Christian. just what i think...
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Re: What some good ideas to help my friend?
Theres not much u really can do. just pray and leave it in Gods hands. He will do what He thinks is best for her.
im praying for u and ur friend! God Bless!
Elizabeth<3
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8/19/2007, 2:20 pm
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Re: What some good ideas to help my friend?
Thanks for praying.
Okay this gets confusing so I'll call the friend that needs help Friend 1 and the other one friend 2. lol
Ok so I still need help because I have know idea whether to tell friend 2 that friend 1 is talking about her. Because I don't want to ruin there relationship and my relationship. It wasn't bad stuff that friend 1 said, just little things that made me mad now and then, like how she deleted my charector on a video game because it was being mean to hers. I didn't really care about that stuff, because everyone had made mistakes, its called SIN. Thats really what I need help with, I'm just lost in thoughts and I have no idea what to tell her. I've been praying..I just don't know. Friend 2 is a christian, but shes doesn't usually talk about Him. She also has tried to bring friend 1 to church but she "forgot".
I know there is a wonderful God out there and He loves me, Hes helped me before with these two friends, I've prayed with them to help them get out of fights and they ended in a day. Jesus rocks.
Its just so confusing and for some reason I can't sleep.
So Im going to ask help from people that I don't even know, because I trust ya'll so much. And Thank you for caring ^.^
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8/25/2007, 10:03 pm
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Re: What some good ideas to help my friend?
well, i don't think it would really be a good idea to tell friend 2 that friend 1 is talking about her, but if she says something mean about her, i would just ask her to stop and if that doesn't work, maybe you shouldn't spend so much time with her. i mean, i'm not saying you should like shun her and not be her friend and just never hang out with her, but i mean, if she's gonna be talking about your other friends behind their backs, it might not be a good idea to hang out with her too much. but i mean still at least be nice to her and everything (but i guess that kinda goes without saying) and keep praying for her. if you do invite her to church or anything, make sure you're not like just asking her every time you see her. don't be too persistent about it if she says no, but maybe just once a month you could invite her (unless she says yes, then every week would be a good idea). i hope that helps 
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Re: What some good ideas to help my friend?
Thanks, That helps a lot. Tomorrow I start high school and I'm so worried that none of my friends will be there or that I'll have evil teachers like last year (not exactly evil, but homework giving...) So im a little emotional right now and listening to "Me and Jesus" over and over again.
Yeah I figured it wasn't the best thing to tell her that. I think I should let it go and if it happens again I'll tell her to stop and do what you say.
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Re: What some good ideas to help my friend?
lol Actually I like it a lot. My teachers are nice, I think, because 2 of them show no emotion at all they don't laugh.
I haven't seen my friend in like 6 months so its going well. 
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Re: What some good ideas to help my friend?
About your friends ^^^^^ I wouldn't recoment telling Friend 2 that Friend 1 was talking about her because Been there, Done that! I was the one talking about someone, and the person who I was talking to got a whole nother imput to what I was saying, and we were in "teacher councling" and it stunk, because my friend who I was talking to got the impression that I was talking about her other friend, who is also one of my friends, but I just told her to remind me to mention something! hehe And big mess, so I wouldn't tell her, because friend 1 will lose your trust and friend 2 will be mad at you for telling her (I've actually been on both ends, long and confusing story! hehe) Friend 2 is just going to be hurt and mad at friend 1 and at you, so I wouldn't recomend telling her. But you can tell friend 1 that you feel uncomfurtable talking about friend 2, I hope that helps!
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