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Death and Grief...
November 5th

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Re: November 5th

it might be important for u to go so u can sort out some feelings of your own. i dont think ur mum is meaning it horribly by stopping u from going but denying it has happened and pretending that everything is ok may be just her way of coping with grief. i wouldnt say that it was possible for her to have forgotten him xxx

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10/5/06, 18:40

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sweetie, no matter how many years go by, you'll never forget someone as close as your brother. I'm truly sorry for what happened to him but know that you as well deserve life. I know he would think so as well... I know there's nothing I can do to lessen the pain or bring him back but just because you're still mourning him doesn't mean you're overly sensitive or anything and please don't think there's anything wrong with you. I don't know what else to say but just know just because you think about him still isn't a bad thing. It's just your way of coping with the loss of him. I know 7 years is a long time but that doesn't make the hurt any less...I think it will always hurt a little when you see stuff that reminds you of him...but know that he lives on in your heart...if you ever need to talk to me just add me to msn Kungfurobby@hotmail.com

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I dont know. The reason Im still 'mourning' is because I wasnt allowed to think about it when i was 7, 8, 9 maybe even 10...when i was 11 i tried not to think about it...but 12/13/14 e.t.c...I dont know...so many things happened which brought so many memories back, and now to me...its asthough he's only just died

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11/5/06, 5:19

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often when other things happen it can bring back up bad memories of the past. i really think u should try and get to c his grave, do u know where it is? xx

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11/5/06, 12:04

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Yeah, Hereford Crematorium...
But thats the city which (i think) is furthest away from me...
No, second furthest, my schools furthest...but i still cant get there...its impossible...and id be scared to see it ?!?!

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11/5/06, 15:50

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what about the train or the bus? can u get either of those? u need to decide if its what u really want before u decide how to get there or not. emoticon

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11/5/06, 16:18

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well yeah...its kinda what i want..but i couldnt do it alone

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take a friend with u? xxxxxx

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11/5/06, 17:05

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when u have been alton towers do u have to go back on the coach with the school or could u say u were getting picked up. if i was meeting u there anyway i could take u home and bypass the grave? just an idea..... xxxxx

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a post thats 2 years old?
worth anything?
well, i didnt see a point in starting a new one and i still mean every word that i said back then...
Except i went to the grave, when i moved out, i took maddie, only the once, i broke down and havent been back since...
I plan to go Wednesday though, Maddie is in nursery, so i can go alone...
going to be hard, but i have to do it, i feel guilty... last time the grave was a mess, but i didnt have the strength to do anything about it, i doubt i will this time...but i will try...

i hate november 5th, especially as everyone else is out celebrating and having fun emoticon

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