This board is multifaceted, crossing various topics from New Age, spirituality, metaphysical, psychology, physical issues, relationships, emotions, self-help and more. It is created for those who seek change and desire to empower themselves, to live life as an expression of who they really are in unconditional love. If you think/feel that your life and this world full of denial, fear and unlovingness is totally opposite what you desire, it is no coincidence that you are here.
To say that this board will be controversial is an understatement as it goes against almost everything society presently believes to be true about emotions, feelings, life and love. But then why wouldn't it be controversial if the desire and goal is the opposite of what is presently being experienced! To empower yourself, you need to be open to challenge everything you believe to be true, especially about love, life, emotions and feelings and also be willing to end your denials of self.
I openly share the knowledge, tools, messages and insights that I've gained through sixteen years of intensive personal experience and in working with others on their journey. Feel free to visit the various forums and posts and to also add your personal experiences, comments and questions. It is my intent that the ideas and works that will be discussed within this forum will not only expand your consciousness, but also activate your emotions and touch your heart.
In love, light and life,
John Rieger aka Shenreed| My Profile | |My Manuscript | |Saysame | | My Blogs | | THC - Tribe | | shenreed---at---yahoo.com |
The Heart Centre
404 - Anger & Rage
404-01 Denial and Blame
theheartcentre
Head Administrator
Global user
Registered: 06-2003
Location: Toronto, Canada
Posts: 161
Karma: 0 (+0/-0)
Reply | Quote 404-01 Denial and Blame
Hi Everyone
We are so caught up in the matrix of programs and beliefs of the physical world that we have drastically impaired our power to think freely and even more damaging, we have almost totally lost our power to express our true feelings. Yes, we can think, but we can only act according to the rules. And yes, we have feelings, but we can only display "positive" ones which are acceptable and controlled by a mind that obeys the rules, programs and beliefs.
We are told why, what, where, when and how to think and feel, and also what we can and can't do. We are also taught that if we can't achieve the desired results that there has to be a logical reason or explanation for our failure and lack of success. When faced with such apparent failure, we have been programed to believe that the casue is related to one of two denial based options. On one end of the denial teeter-totter we blame ourselves and on the other end we blame others or something outside ourselves. Everything in-between these two extremes is then a combination of the two.
When we seek to blame an outside source, we have been programmed to find the "quick fix" and an easy solution, Shoot first and ask questions later is a poplar cliche that we subscribe to when we seek to blame others. The reason we are so quick to divert the attention outwardly is to get the focus off of us because if we can blame another or something else, we believe we have solved the problem. Underlying this methodology is denied self-hatred.
On the other end of the denial teeter-totter we blame ourselves for what we are experiencing or what we feel others are experiencing because of us. We condemn, criticize, chastise, berate and belittle ourselves, which includes the use of guilt and shame to prove that our feelings and actions are wrong or at fault. Underlying this mythology is denied hatred of others.
This is the game we play; the merry-go-round we are on, the illusion we've been calling life. We've also been reinforcing it with programs, beliefs like, well thats life. You have to face the facts. That's the way it is. You have to take the good with the bad. You have to grow a tougher skin. Roll with the punches. Go with the flow. Grin and bare it. Try harder. Learn to compromise. Learn to play the game. You have to get with the program, and all the other nonsense cliches and so-called words of wisdom which only further increase the presence of denial and confusion.
We always have choice but we these have been limited to believe that we only have three basic choices. We can run, we can fight, or we give up. But there is also another choice we have that no one has told us about. We can surrender to love, to self-love by ending our denials and unconditionally expressing ourselves and speaking the truth, which of course, is the opposite of what we have been told should do.
John Rieger/Shenreed
"Healing begins in the Heart
Last edited by shenreed, 7/Jul/2007, 10:57 pm
11/Jun/2003, 11:27 pm Send Email to theheartcentre Send PM to theheartcentre
Add a reply
Powered by AkBBS 0.9.5b - Link to us - Blogs - Hall of Honour - Chat
Click here to get your own free message board
| My Personal Page | |My Manuscript | |Saysame || My Blogs | | THC - Tribe | | shenreed---at---yahoo.com |
