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103 - Conditional Love
103-02 "Feeling" Denial
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Hi everyone,
Denial is subtle as it twists and turns to disguise itself as being the opposite of what it really is. It does this, not by direct words or actions, but by careful use of words and also by the omission of words. It's impossible to mind read and to try to mentally decipher, denials hidden meanings and agenda. To begin to understand how denial works, you need to have awareness that something is wrong. You need to "feel" that although the words may sound and be right, that the person may look and act sincere, but that there is something missing as the "feeling" is not one of love. You can have one hundred people stand in front of you and say "I love you," but which one really means it? How can you tell who is telling the truth?
If you?re not a "feeling" person or are one, but are totally closed off to your feelings, then you wouldn?t have a clue as to what I'm talking about. If however, you are a "feeling" person, even though you may not know exactly what I'm saying, you feel that what I'm saying is a truth. This forum isn't about trying to reach those whose natural state of being is denial, or those who are happy in denying themselves. They are what they are and are experiencing what they desire and that is OK. Who I'm trying to reach, and plant a seed, so to speak, are those whose natural state of being is NOT denial, who are unhappy when they deny themselves, especially their feelings.
I just thought of the ugly duckling story. The swan was raised thinking that it was a duck and tried desperately to be like the other "ducks" but was unhappy. It unknowing was in denial of who it really was and tried to be what it wasn't. So too, like the swan, we are in denial of who we are when we try to be what we think we should be, or what others tell us we should be, instead of being who we are. Now that I've planted the seed and you are aware, you will have a choice to make, as changes are coming that can't be denied without facing the consequences of your denials.
Love, light and Life
John Rieger / Shenreed
"Healing begins in the Heart"
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