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103 - Conditional Love
Obsession
OSheen
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Hi ... I have found myself in a situation where a friend is obsessed with another friend. I too, have noticed that I have internal attachments to this person, and others befoere, that I do not act on yet the tension remains. For me, it is mostly fear that the other person will cease to exist ... Any advice on how I can let go of this tension in myself?22/Jul/2003, 3:17 pm Send Email to OSheen Send PM to OSheen
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Hi Osheen,
Its interesting how it the universe works as attachments is also what Im working on from the point of view of attachments to things like words and their meaning. Also intertwined with that is lost hopes, dreams and desires, denied passion and sexuality, guilt and responsibility and a host of other issues I havent been aware of, or I dont know how Im going to be able to heal them yet.
From what you have stated I think/feel that you also have a few things going on. First is your energy attachment to that person and they to you. The tension, stress and anxiety is caused by denied emotional or intuitive expression that is being held in the body as it has no place else to go. You do NOT have to ACT on your feelings, but you have to EXPRESS them in the moment you feel them, anything else is denied ENERGY and is held in the body. If you read the how-to section, on clearing your astral plane you can begin to work with that.
Mixed in with those attachments are also your fear of expression because you feel you need to be loving and responsible for the other persons feelings because if you hurt THEIR feelings, they might leave and you will never see them again. To heal that you will need to do some inner and then outer child work to find the lost fragments. AND, then intertwined with that is your fear of abandonment and/or death and of losing some person, place or thing.
The first thing you need to do is to see and or feel and release, if possible, the attachments you have before you can begin to work on and with your inner child and its issues. You have to know feel what are your feelings and emotions and what are another persons feelings and emotions. I said if possible as some attachments are there for other reasons that you have yet to touch. Once you have a feel for what, who and how YOU feel, then you can begin to do the other work I mentioned. This is not a quick fix, as quite often these attachments are re-formed because you re-attached them or of other denied issues like the ones you have. If you feel that they are back, do the same as you did before to find out why they are there or what else there is that you missed that needs to be addressed.
John
Healing begins in the Heart22/Jul/2003, 6:05 pm Send Email to theheartcentre Send PM to theheartcentre
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